Are you a nanny?!

Being a young mom has taught me something, no matter what people are going to think you're a nanny. The more kids you have the more likely they are to think it, which makes sense I'm 21 and walking around with 9 kids. Since we have a lot of new people reading, yes I can see how many readers I get and unless someone is rereading the same post A LOT I have some new people. So I met my fiancé over a year ago, he had four kids and I had one kid as well as custody of my exes two children and one who was on the way. So with that we had eight. Then my daughters dad got into some trouble, I don't really tell anyone about what happened with that as much as I love you guys I'm not going into details. It turns out he had one son who's biological mom was also in some trouble and had signed away her rights, I was granted permeant emergency custody of their one year old, nine kids. Obviously, when people see us in public we come up with a faster story than that, but since I'm able to share our story here I'll happily give you guys the long version. To be totally honest, Jason and I almost didn't date because we had so many kid! We thought we were just as crazy as everyone else did, but regardless we realized we had something good going and needed to teach our kids that sometimes the best things in life seem scary. Despite all the challenges that we've had along the way, the fights about parenting styles, the attempts of getting a larger house, and everything else we've been through gaining all my "bonus" kids is beyond worth it. This journey is far from over, so I hope you guys are all ready for this.