Moving Craziness!

We have been in the process of moving for a few weeks now, we just closed on our house so it's like 110% official and I can't believe it. Everyone keeps asking five million questions about how were doing this, when were doing this, and so much more. First thing first, we are not pulling the kids out of school to move them right now, we are going to let them finish the school year where we currently move, but they will go see Jason on weekends and school breaks when their schedules allow for it. Brooke however is in competitive gymnastics and I refuse to pull her out until there is an opening in the new gym she would be switching to. She's on their wait list right now! Yes, gymnastics is that important to her that I am willing to stay behind and let her do her thing while the rest of the family is in a different state. Luckily the state we are moving to is actually closer than some towns in our state so it's not a huge deal. When I mention this to people they look at me like I have four heads and it's normally followed up with "Don't you love him?!" yes I love him, but when he met me he knew that my kids needs would come first and I knew his kids needs would come first, it's part of our unspoken bond that keeps us together. I'm not keeping the kids here because I hate Jason, I'm keeping them here because making them switch schools in the middle of the school year honestly seems like a punishment to me, I've switched schools mid school year before and trust me it can be super hard to catch up and it's really awkward if they're on a different lesson than you are. This is something we both decided would work and besides the exhausting part, it seems to be ok. I've been a single mom long enough to know how to take care of kids on my own it's actually easier for me when he's not around to parent-sorry Jase! Hopefully this answers everyones questions about our moving craziness, wish us luck!