Telling The Kids About Divorce

I have to say, growing up I never thought I would have to tell my kids about their father and I splitting up. My parents divorced when I was about four years old and thinking back, they never sat me down and told me what was happening. I simply woke up one day and they were no longer in the same house. I knew that wasn't what I wanted for my kids. Jason left and hasn't had contact with me or the kids in over a month, so it was a little easier explaining it to them. Sitting down and seeing their faces crumple was definitely not how I planned on spending my day though. I answered many questions about if we would still be a family, and the simple answer is yes. Jason may have left me, but I will never leave the kids. It was important that I reassure them all that no matter what happens, I am here for them and love them. It's something no one ever explained to me growing up, and I feel like it really effects how secure a child feels. Right now, the most important thing for me to do is make sure they all know they are loved and this divorce doesn't change that at all. We are still getting used to life without Jason in the house, it is a lot harder than I imagined it would be, but we are succeeding. I am so proud of all of our kids and the amount of stress they are able to deal with. In addition, I now have a better schedule and am able to post more often so please check back often!